Curate Your Own Path.
You want change. Maybe it’s drinking. Or your body. Or your job.Something’s off. Something’s been off.
So you start searching. And what do you find? Gurus. Programs. Coaches who charge $999 to tell you to hydrate and journal. Rigid systems. Lists. Acronyms. Clean white promises.
And maybe some of it works.
But most of it?
It wasn’t built for you.
This is Beg Borrow Steal.
It’s not a solution. It’s a filter.
So you can start building a system that actually fits your life.
Beg.
Ask for help. From people, books, strangers, posts. But don’t waste anyone’s time—not theirs, not yours. If you ask, be ready to move. Simple as that.
Borrow.
Steal a tactic. Try it. Tweak it. You don’t need to convert. You’re not joining anything. You’re just testing what might get you unstuck.
Steal.
You keep what works. You throw away what doesn’t. You stitch together a rhythm. A pattern. A practice. You don’t owe anyone an explanation.
Can or No Can?
That’s the only question that matters.
You doing it or not?
You moving or stuck?
You trying or making excuses?
There’s no shame in No Can. But sitting still forever? That’s a waste.
This isn’t advice. It’s a framework.
No blueprints. No perfect path.
Just some tools, a few borrowed sparks, and a push to get going.
So let’s go.
Can or No Can?